No, you aren't the same as him. You use anger and violence where he used words and authority. But you both seem to enjoy insisting on failure, and finding the right words to make us doubt and hate ourselves.

But no, you aren't him. But there are times where you attempt to have the control he had. I wonder if he feared losing control of us as well.

And that is all I have to say on the topic. If you don't mind, I have to give the twins their bath.